FROM Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs on page 133
- you hold her hand
- you hug her
- you are affectionate without sexual intentions
- you are with her alone so you can focus on each other and laugh together
- you go for a walk or jog . . . anything that results in togetherness
- you seek her out . . . set yp a date night . . . eat by candlelight
- you go out of your way to do something for her, like run an errand
- you make it a priority to spend time with her
- you are aware of her as a person with a mind and opinions . . . let her know you enjoy discussing things with her and getting her insights
- you suggest the unexpected . . . het takeout and eat on the beach . . . take a walk to see the full moon . . . park on the bluff and watch the sunset
- you pillow talk after making love . . . lie close with your arm around her and share feelings and intimate ideas . . . and never turn on SportsCenter or Nightline.